Hi all,

Right now actually I go for a couple of months not wanting sex at all, then a few days of it and then I am done. I feel bad for my hubby when I do this because during those times I am unaffectionate as well. I don't cuddle or let him touch me I almost cringe when he puts his arms around me because I am sure it will only lead to one place.

I am wondering if I should just bite the bullet and have sex when he wants and just fake my interest and enthusiusm.

I have told him before that if it were just quicker, I would do it more but that has not gotton through. I can fake it for 5 minutes just not 3 hours.

This is going to be a paticular problem soon because we want to have a baby next year and clearly one=the other.

I just don't know what to do..

alas