You have to really think if all this adds up for a good future together. the distance, the dating site, the issues on age, the job situation. I've never been in the same situation but really would have to agree with the above-poster - trying something new in a relationship closer to home sounds like the right thing to do. sure, he was curious but may also be struggling with the limits of your current relationship. Having your current stable job and someone local probably (in my opinion) a better choice. That's the practical/rational side of it. If you love him, and he you, then ask if it is going further and if not - then it's your decision on what to do with your own future.