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Old Jan 26, 2009, 11:00 AM
AngelinaJ AngelinaJ is offline
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I am new to this site, so I would like to say hello to every 1 first of all.

I don't know where to start actually, me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship, it is very strong. Sometimes it is not so good, not bad, but annoying, if that makes sense. My boyfriend does do a lot for me, but sometimes I feel as though I am ignored, so I have mentioned this many times to him, and he says he will pay more attention, then things do not change, so I mention it again, and he will get in a mood and not talk to me. This is what has happened this time, something happened over the weekend and I told him that I felt like I am second best and that he doesn't care. That he is being selfish and that I should start being selfish. Because I always put him first and i am always thinking of him, but it does not seem like he does the same. And he said that I am being silly and saying stupid things. Now yesterday evening he didn't say a word to me and he left for work this morning without saying anything. I am guessing he is hurt by what I said, that is why he is giving me the silent treatment, or it is because I have said it a few times before he has had enough of me talking about it. I just do not know what to do. I love him so much and he does do a lot for me.

What should I do?

Thank you.

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