my husband also has Bipolar, found out three years ago, we have been married only four years. The man I fell in love with seems to be gone. He does and says the most aweful things to me and others. We have been seeing help for three years with little or no help to him, minimal help for me. I joined this chat line to see if I could get a better understanding of the whole thing. I don't know how I can hold on much longer. I pray to God every day to give me the strength to go on with this marriage. We share four children together, two mine, two his. His children also have mental disorders, I wish there was a group I could join that we sat in person and talked, I will continue to search for one. In the mean time, hold on