I am so sorry that you're feeling this way. The ones we love the most are the ones that really know where our weak spots are.
I wouldn't write the friendship off just yet. My closest friends and I have had the worst fights imaginable and come out the other side still being friends. A friendship is like any other relationship it has it's ups and downs. But true friends don't have conditions, there are boundaries of course which is the source of the majority of fights.
Perhaps your friend was attempting to make you see that things are rarely as bad as they seem. That no matter what you've gone through in life, there is someone out there that has had it much worse. Sometimes when we get so wrapped up in everything that has gone wrong, we forget to appreciate the things that have gone right.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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