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Old Jan 26, 2009, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted by notme9 View Post
Have you read John Briere's work? Your question reminded me of an article of his that I read recently. He talks about preverbal assumptions, and if I recall, he talked about how those assumptions are hard to change. I believe his point was they were most effectively changed by showing (through new relationships), than by verbally telling. It might be worth looking at...

http://johnbriere.com/stm.htm
yes thanks! I did read Briere's book, and also John Chu's ("Rebuilding Shattered Lives" - both excellent). They seem to think that through transference experience, the preverbal "knowledge" can be refuted - but if it's true that transference only occurs early in a therapeutic relationship, if this "knowledge" isn't refuted then, what else is there? I don't think I have transference for my T (both females).