I'm experiencing some of that with my own children too. A girl who likes my son and who has been calling the house a zillion times a day showed up in the neighborhood this weekend with an another girl. The ended up hanging around the house all day. When I talk to her she seems like a nice girl, but I really struggle with not judging her to be like me at that age. Part of me is like stay away from my son, he doesn't need to learn how to handle the likes of you yet. LOL

I really have to step back and say...its OK, she is not you, just keep an eye on things.