((((((((((((((((Kendyl)))))))))))))))

"This was just a problem because Trevor has been sneaking alcohol into the house. Jon has been working so hard to stay sober...and here's someone under the radar acting with complete disregard for the rest of the system"

Boy do I understand this one well. I also have an alter (who does not believe herserlf to be an alter, nor does she understand or believe she is DID) who also drinks - which is a medical problem for us. Some days are more of a struggle than others.
Hope you are ok and glad he is not hurting you any more. You do not deserve to be hurt by anyone.