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Jan 26, 2009, 11:03 PM

Thanks buddies. I appreciate all the support.

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While I'm sure it felt uncomfortable to see her cry, didn't it also show you that she really cares?

Yup. But it also made me feel bad for making her feel bad.

That also stems from childhood. Talking about my father after he died was met with such uncomfortable sadness (no one knew how to console me) that I learned quickly not to talk about him because I had become "responsible" for making others sad. That's kinda how I felt when T showed her emotions.

The good thing is I recognize it. It might take me awhile but I eventually "get it."

I know, I know. Not my "job" to worry about T.