Yes, I am familiar with the term. I asked some people I know and some told me to be careful while the mayority told me her ex is a non going relationship. The fact that he wont leave in the state we are in because he used to leave here and left. He hates it. He now lives at 1500 miles away and wont move back here.

My girlfriend wont move there for several reasons, her daugher goes to school here and does not want to move anywhere else, she made it clear she will stay here if my girlfriend decided to move. Her entire family mother, sister, brother, nieces, nephews live here and she wont leave them. Third, I am here and we both have jobs here.

She left him because he hurt her several times, he is a player, and because she knows she doesnt have a future with him at all.

The mayority of the people told me: give her the space, dont worry abou th emails, or messages and give her the space she wants. She wont go back to the same thing that she left because she got hurt and was lonly to start. People told me to not mention him, and not worry because doing anything is like beating on a dead horse.

His done. It may take sometime for her to realize it but at the end it will come to her senses.

Even if I get taken for a ride, I will go on until either she is with me forever, or she goes with him. I have 2 options leave her or stay with her and see what potential future we have together. Cuttiing everything right now is like quiting and I will always look back at what if..... So, If i get hurt or taken for a ride then I will eventually get over it.

I decided to stay with her and see what our future will be. I know she has been very loving with me and has swored to me she is 100% mine and she loves me. She told me she still has some feelings for her ex but thats normal after 3 years of been togetehr and she will most likely be over him soon.

Let s see.

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