I know this wasn't your question, but don't you think Connor is not being healthy for you right now? This isn't the first time in the very recent past you guys have argued. But it's not just the arguing, it the things above. Saying deep hurtful things to anyone is bad, but to one you know is already hurting is unacceptable. Never ever should he have a threatening tone with you, even if nothing came it, it's the tone that matters (when my girls say "fine" or something like that and I reprimand them, they often say, "All I said was ______" and I say, in a really nasty ugly hateful voice, "I love you." Then I say, "see, it makes a big difference how it is said. The words mean the same, but the tone doesn't."). I know Connor has his own depression issues right now, too, but that in no way gives him the right to talk to you like this or to cross that boundry about getting upset at you regarding your room. It is, by defination YOUR room. Not his. Think about, K, and think about yourself first.