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Jan 27, 2009, 03:41 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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kendyll, as i read what you wrote i see again how challenging it is to love someone who is split like we are. it is so complicated inside for us and now i see a bit more how it can be so rough on the people we love. i also see how much you need support and people to understand what you go through so that we can support you here too and so that we can better understand what we put the people we love the most through sometimes. i try and keep my alts away from phil because he doesn't choose to believe that we are really split and i've felt justifiably bummed out over that, but hearing from you makes me see how much i may confuse and complicate things for phil and make his life harder and less secure and comforting and cozy/secure/ affectionate. wow!
kendyll, be sure to take good care of you and do not let any alt treat you badly or make you feel physically endangered, that is just not ok at all!!! home should be safe for you as much as for jon and parts. gee, i do not mean to get all preachy, but it concerns me when i hear of any part threatening someone's safety. i guess that triggers me. take good care of you while you try and be good to jon and his system. you matter every bit as much. 
leslie and pixie chicks
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