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Originally Posted by AAAAA
Maybe you should spend some time thinking about why you have had a hard time remaining faithful in your last two relationships. I'm really not being judgemental. At the risk of being un-pc, women usually cheat because they find something lacking in their current relationship and find it somewhere else.
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How true how true.....but yes it is correct. Maybe its the fact that your bf was away for a while.
And what CantStopCrying said about "People can hate what you've done without hating you" is so true. CantStopCrying knows of my situation prolly moreso than most other members here. Bottom line is that my wife had a couple affairs while she was married to me. I still stay in contact with my wife (soon to be ex wife) but she tells me everyday that she hates herself. I have told her time and time again that I do not hate her, and I dont. I do hate her actions and what she has done to me, but I dont think i could ever hate her or not love her.
Let me just say that lies and deception kill relationships, weather they are friendships, a boyfriend/girlfriend or even a marriage. If your bf chooses to let you go then that is his choice, and I would say he has a right to know.
I do not judge you. I can't judge you but I can advise you on what it feels like on the other side of a situation like this.
I do wish that my wife did something like this but she kept it a secret. We are here for you.
