My husband seems to need to know what I'm doing every second of every day. When I get to work I have to call him, on every break I have to call him, on my way home I need to call him. My job doesn't always allow for breaks at a certain time or leaving at exactly the same time every day. When I have to stay even an extra 5 minutes he gets upset.

When I told him I signed up here he got upset that I might be talking to other men. He says that every other relationship he has had ended with him being cheated on. One of his brothers had an affair that started with on-line encounters and he is suspicious.

He is very suspicious of therapists and counselors but I thought this would be a good way for me to meet some people who may be able to help me work through some things on my own. We are both under a lot of stress at the moment and I need support. He doesn't want me to be constantly crying but doesn't want me to be in a tempting situation. I can't win either way.

Anybody got any ideas?