Your situation sounds common for a married couple in the middle of financial stress and a new born baby.... I would suggest that you pull back from verbally reminding your husband that you have not had sex in the last (how ever many weeks) and start by loving him with your eyes, time together and touch through out the days you spend together and then when you are in the mood (without saying a word) touch and gentle caress your man while in bed at night until you can tell that he is ready for some love making.... then take the evening to the next level - to a place where both of you will receive some much needed sexual pleasure.

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I have found that my man is less likely to indulge in sex if I hound him about it.... but more likely to finish the act with me if I take matters into my own hands - we both win this way... even if it is only once a week.