hon I think anyone on disability feel that way. I have my own family tell me to get off my butt. I wish to heck I could! it is really hard on younger people that are disabled. I am on a walker when I go out where I have to walk any distance at all and although I am 51 people still look at me like I am an alien or something. I won't allow that to stop me from leaving my house. I stay in enough as it is. go out and hold your head up high hon!