Diann, I understand exactly what you are going through becuase I can relate. My husband is BP and the lashes and the hurtful things stick and are very hard to overlook simply becuase he is ill. I try very hard not to take personal, sometimes it's easy and sometimes it's not, but I'm reading this book that helps and maybe it might help you and/or help you feel some peace....."loving someone who has Bipolar" it's a great book and I think you will enjoy it.

Hang in there, that's all in of us can do....:-)