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Originally Posted by ariesmars
few things, i guess.
1. a girl i work with, that i think likes me, is no longer working with me. she was so nice and i wanted to talk to her, but she no longer with me. I feel so hurt about it.
2. i feel my T hurt me last session, because she talked and said "get over it" instead of trying to understand me and find the reason things bother me.
3. and i feel hurt that others get replied to so many times and i just get one or two and then that is it. it is like i am just not worth anything so people just pass me by. I know i should take part, but i have AS and socially it is too hard to intiate the conversaytion. Even on a forum, others have to start it and keep it going.
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thank you for replying to our questions, (((aries))). sometimes i've posted something and don't get many replies but i know that there may be other factors for this. there are so many of us posting that i'm sure my posts sometimes get lost in the mix. use the help icon so we know you need immediate attention if at all possible.
did your T really use that term "get over it"? i for one would be looking for another T if you can. that's not an acceptable answer, imho. whether our perception is skewed or not, we all have feelings that need to be validated or acknowledged. i'm sorry this happened to you. i'd bring this up at my next session if i were you.
as for that girl, do you have her cell number? u might want to give her a call and just say hi, how goes it? nice surprises happen everyday if we just look for them. 
meantime you post and let us know how you are doing, k? i care.
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