everything is stacked against you right now....and you've helped stack it.....if a professional doesn't call you back, what do you do? take it personally and refuse to call her????? that's nonsense and you know it.....and you haven't been able to go to a support group because you can't explain it to your children.......are your children deaf, shirley????? you just don't want to go to a support group right now. you'd go if it was a priority....you're making excuses for yourself and your ex.....you get a key from that man for those children and get it asap...and quit whining.....now, before everyone jumps me, i know that i can tell her this and she will take it as i meant it to be taken.....she'll gulp and get some backbone and do what she needs to do.....taking care of herself and her children.......won't you???: xoxoxoxo pat p.s. if i can go do my stuff for school, why can't you take care of yourself and your children??? think about it.......