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Originally Posted by UCLAFan
I get mad easily and i wanted to cuss at him.So i just told him a bit of my situation.Just so he would shut up.I know that might not make any sense to u.I do not handle nosey people well.I have nosey family memebers to and i get mad easily.I at times want to know more about some people.But i myself do not like to be rude and nosey.
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Yep, I completely understand feeling angry.....and anger is hard to control for sure. (((( UCLA ))))) It makes a lot of sense to me hon....a lot of sense.
In creating relationships there is always give and take of information about ourselves. But strangers asking because they are rude is not one of those relationships in which they deserve to know anything at all.
In suggesting to you that you ask a rude person "Why do you need to know?" I was giving you a way to take back control of the situation. Very often when we are in control, we feel less anger and we have a lot more confidence in ourselves
We have so little control in our daily lives at times, it sure does feel good when we can control something
sabby