hon our beauty comes mainly from within. you can do things to straighten your teeth and have the cavities filled. you can color your hair and do all kinds of things if that is what you want to do to feel better about yourself. I would if I could myself. All men look at women. it is part of their nature. I use to point them out to my husband all the time. how about this. you see a nice looking man and you do the same to him. let him see how it makes you feel. it is worth a shot right?