Thanks, Sabby...Your responses are always so balanced and calming to me (and others here I'm sure).
Daughter says the son of a director of the hospital there goes to the school, and they will have direct access to him. I guess that is what you mean by "networking." Also, that there is a daily flight out to Istanbul to hospital there. She's not concerned.

I've let this wreck my anxiety level, and i can barely move my neck from the pain. This happens when I'm stressed. I did wake up from a restless night in which I awoke feeling fear and flashes of anger, which quickly subsided. I realize this is my feelings of helplessness and lack of control in the decision. In truth, I've never been able to control my daughter, and didn't even try, resorting instead to trusting her judgment.

As Gimmeice suggested, time for some self-care.
Love
Patty