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Old Jan 29, 2009, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Taonuviel View Post
but what did i expect? pretty much this. i'm self aware enough to recognize whether there's an answer to my problems... and there isn't. i can't communicate right, i'm too abstract, too confused/ing. it's how my brain works, i can't verbalize coherently enough... there's no fixing it.

Everything takes practice. Things aren't black and white. Things that are learned can be unlearned, and you can always learn new ways of things. People are born with their genes but the interact with the environment and as such genetics alone does not indicate your future. The past doesn't dictate your present/future either.

Since you aren't being specific, I can't really address the situation your in very well, but please know that there is always HOPE. I always say that when a brick wall is put in your face, you should look for ways around, over, and under the wall. Practice ways of being specific versus abstract with your therapist. It might take time, but it will work out if you give it a good faith effort.

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Thanks for this!
Taonuviel