y'know...im gonna give you some advice I read in cosmo....they seem to know what theyre talking about lol. they said in an article I read that if you cheat, whether its kissing, having sex etc..., and all it does is make you realize how much you really do love the person you cheated on, then you probably shouldnt tell them. if it was the kinda thing that made you think "oh my god i feel horrible i couldnt ever do this ever again!" then you found out the info you needed.

it sounds like maybe you wanted to test ur relationship. i think, unless alcohol is involved, thats prob the biggest reason especially if you said u werent physically attracted to him. so you tested it and the result u got was reassurance of how much you really do care about ur bf.

so ultimately its up to you and i know that ur conscious is prob eating away at you. but stuff like that can cause un-needed stress. and im all about being brutally honest in every relationship you have. but were all human and we all make mistakes. the important thing is the result of it, i think.