I told my boyfriend about the self harming and it's really upset him. He asked me about the last time I did it, and because it indirectly was because of something he was involved in he got really upset.

He's so worried and scared for anything to go wrong now, and seems pretty overwhelmed by the whole thing.

I guess I just wanted to see if anyone had experienced this, and how they made their partners feel a bit more ok about knowing that their loved one self harms?