Hi, really I don't think u really have the problem...I think it's the other way around! I mean in the first year of a relationship passionate sex is the most logical thing, unless being a workaholic really affects him. But, you know, metntioning about the dating site is kind of suspicious. I get the sensation that he doesn't really and truelly respond you. What kind of love is he giving u? I love you today and not the next minute? That's probably what's causing your attachment; at least it would happen to me in the same position... And let's leave the age part away, it's a minor problem( I mean it could affect you in the sense u don't like the same music, or maturity, but he is 28, not a toddler) here, are you willing to engage in a realtionship not based on trust first; second, where you feel sometimes rejected, etc? You're just starting, if u have to give more time then give it some more time. But, if inside yourself u feel this is not for u and u always feel kind of a btrayment in his responsen then u know think this: I am an independent person first, I'm an independent women second; the decision is mine, and this way your attachment will wear off slowly. it's normal to feel attached, since you're in love and ready to share your life with someone u consider important; u want to comit(my spelling is horrible!) to the other half u love and attachment is a normal response. What I don't see so normal is his reaction, sounds like he doesn't want to or not ready for what it takes to attach for u. And don't worry, u have your own job, right? you have your own life right? And believe me, the first yr it is usually normal to feel passionate... Your worth it, overall.....