And one more thing, just in case it crosses your mind: 38 is a good age to find a comitted relationship; you have a lot of time still to be loved. I say this because a friend of mine that's 33 suddenly got married out of the blue because she thinks she's getting old( and longs to have children and all that). Personally I would rather know what I'm running into. Children or whatever come later if I feel like it. Keep looking and have fun first! You are just in the ideal age to find somebody mature enough for you and responds nicely to you, not following his own wims... See u: Rappaccini