yeah I will have had some effect, they now say babies who are born prematurely and are incubators experience feelings of abandonment and/or loss..I'm an adoptee and was placed with my adoptive witch, ops I mean mother at 8days .. and if your time of "abandoment", and it feels like a abandoment to a newborn, whether it is or isn't in reality, wasn't acknowledged then you will have some residue feelings left from that time...