For all the Married people...I know I keep asking about questions about being in relationships...and I know it annoys people..but I'm curious and I guess insecure about lots of things to do with relationships. How do you know the guy you are with loves you. My bf says he shows loving by doing things for me. I know I care for my bf.. but I feel emotionally numb...I've felt this way all my life...I know i care because when i am with him...i am the happiet I've ever been...but when I am at home and not with him...i feel numb...I'm not sure how i feel...when i talk on the phone with him i am excited and sad when he has to hang up....I pray to God he feels the same loving feeling...I know it's dumb to rush things...but I want a future with him...I know I'm only 19...but I'm not sure if he wants that with me...it's been 9 months...when do you start talking about the future together??