(((((((((((griffe))))))))))))) When it feels like you can't hold on any longer, that's when you tighten your grip and lean to your left or right--we'll be there for you to lean on.

Look back to the statement that things started to look like they would get better---that's very important. There is hope in that statement. Things will. Remember some techniques to distract, the headphones and plushies and such. Can Kate email you a recent pic of your kids? It is so good to see in games, though we still miss you in thread war, and if you think you're going to stay away until the very last and the snap up that crown....you may be right! Vince, please remember how much you are loved, how important you are.