i was homeschooled except kindergarten, 1st, 10th-12th, and part of 6th and 7th. no idea if anything was noticed when i was little - if anything was, my parents wouldn't have believed it. later on my problems were probably assumed to have been because i had been homeschooled.

on the psychcentral test i score 37.

i took a more extensive test a month ago and came up with this, higher than a lot of diagnosed aspies on the site i found it through:
Your Aspie score: 151 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 46 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie


so yeah, as far as online tests go i look like i have it, but i can't find out for sure without insurance, and can't find any adult programs around here...

and having been homeschooled complicates it... but if that was the cause i really think i'd have learned something by now...