Hello everyone ,

Its time to delve into this in a big way. I need help with this. Its complicated . How to get this out there so its a disccusion.

I have been on a few on line forums in the past three years. All of them have been mental health forums. I have had varied experiences with this . .

I have had communications with two men and two other women from my first forum not this one. The women were having communications with these same men .


One of the men I was writing to I stoped when I found out he was married . after a hurtful blocking on his part . I wrote to him again durring this time I found one of the women I knew from the old forum had been having day to day communication for two years and it was dysfunctional.

I began inqiring about thier marital status or other important questions and I got threatened with discontinuatio of friendship.
I later found that this is still married and also was not revealing his true age.
yet when I confronted I got more threats .

the threats have now escalted into me being a stalker , criminal , and unsafe.

many of you who have gone through therapy and have been honest know what its like to live your life realizing therapist's and doctors look at you this way .

this person has always treated me this way . I have just wanted to be treated other wise .

this person has more power and they always win. Im terified as to what they can do to me now. Its mutual. its destroyed beyond hope .

Ive made ahuge mistake its been a long time .
please becareful with who you choose to correspond with .

please becareful about starting up online correspondance with men who are still married .

I am at a loss now as to how to proceed . it may be I just need to be in real life . that may be safer .

Ive met someone new but they are long distance and they are a spot on match in every way for my ex online friend .
its been confusing .

I'm sad so very sad. so very hurt so very set back into wondering if I should have a relatioship .
You have won my friend . you've succeded in pumuling me when im just trying to stand up.

Patricia