"The people I met were on a forum that had a similar format but were far from whats happening here at PC. which from what I can see is good healthy nurturing interactions. It feels safe here . "
I agree, Patricia (my name is Patricia also!). One thing I've observed here on PC, is that if someone is behaving inappropriately, i.e., trying to seduce or even hinting at stalking, they don't remain here long. It is very well moderated, and inappropriate posts are usually stopped.
PC has helped me tremendously since I came here initially 4 years ago. I needed helpful feedback and I got it! I have made some really good friends here.
I hope you find PC as safe and helpful as I have.
Love
Patty