you are reminding me of the old saying about someone doing something to you that is unpleasant or hurts or embarrasses you...etc. etc....."first time, his fault".."second time, my fault".......Shirley you keep asking us how to do things that only you can do...if I could come there, I wouldn't tell your ex that you have to have spending money for the children...only you can do that. I can say this, you don't ask him, you tell him. When is your next mediation??? I can support you, emotionally, but you're going to have to dig yourself out of the hole that you partially helped him dig....I am feeling really gloomy about being so "up front" with you, but I know that you know what to do...you just don't want to do it.......if my memory serves me right, you've posted about this before....babycakes, I hope you quit being his doormat and get up off you *** and show him that you aren't taking that **** anymore.......k?
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxpat p.s. don't go jumping, me, everyone.....Shirley expected this answer when she started this thread.......