Undconditional means love no matter what someone does. It does not matter what you do. It is hard to understand but your friend may still love you. Sometimes we have to seperate from people we love in order to take care of ourselves. It sounds like you have the same kind of problems we do. We are not mean to people but they leave us and hate us. I think it is a problem a lot of people with did have. When we switch alters it frightens and confuses people. Instead of trying to understand and accept us they run away. We don't have any friends either. Everyone leaves us except our T. People we work with are always mad at us. People don't understand the changes in us. I'm sorry this happens to you too. ali and friends