Jopepsi,
When I first learned about my separate parts, I remember I wanted to get out of my body. I did not want to live inside this body anymore.
I really like that you used the idea of a jigsaw puzzle to describe yourself, even if you are at present, torn apart. When jigsaw puzzles are put back together again, it is usually, one piece at a time and they turn out to be beautiful! I like puzzles.

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Also, sometimes a piece goes back easily and sometimes a piece seems to take forever to find it's place.
I really like Judee's idea of the 12 Step Groupwork, in the meantime, because they use the concept of one day at a time (sometimes one minute) and another focus they support is the concept that you must take care of you. I have benefitted so much from a 12 step group.