thank you SOOOO much everyone for your support.

It's very hard for me. It makes me feel like he likes me less than those women.. or at least finds me less attractive.
I understand it's normal for men to find other women attractive. I just don't think it's ok to tell your wife about it.
I know, I think some famous men are gorgeous, but I would NEVER tell my husband or make comments. It would hurt his ego and self esteem.

I talked to him about it, and he said he would stop. I told him all about my insecurites.. and he said i was overreacting. Maybe I am.. but i tend to do that.
I can't bring myself to tell him how bad my eating disorder was though.. i've sort of told him I dieted but he doesn't seem to take a hint. I don't know if I should even tell him.
I'm glad he said he would stop, but idk if that's really going to happen.
He never said he was going to stop before, but maybe that because I hadn't told him how ugly I feel because I didn't want to seem vulnerable.. ughh

hopefully he'll keep his promise though..

You guys are right though.. i guess i need to work on my self esteem. saluki girl--I never though about it that way. I do critize myself every time I look in the mirror.. it's never "wow. im beautiful" but "ew i cant believe I look like that!!" lol

thank you alll