I met my husband on an internet dating site - but before that I met a lot of loosers. They are like any other place to meet people. They advertise the few cases where a good match is made but not the hundreds of frustrated people still waiting. Kind of like the weight loss commercials where the fine print says "results not typical". You can get the same results from bars, letting friends match you up, or finding someone at work. In the end, we all want our soulmate handed to us and get upset that there are 6,000,000,000 people in the world and only maybe 10 we are really compatable with for a marriage type commitment. That probably doesn't make you feel any better, but reality isn't always fair, easy or comfortable.