(((((( kd )))))
I did not read all replys so I hope I am not saying what somebody else said but I believe you and lil man are better off without her.
Of course I am prejudice in this manner.
I think she is hurting and manipulative. Keep her at arms length. but only if you can't find a longer stick.
I know how hard this is for you. But you can do it.
Take care.
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