reddragon: i don't understand why others want to end there life? even my voices agree , if you die, we die.my voices and images wont allow me to do this if i even want to to do this, we wont alloy ourselves to die.

Oh no, you never throw a part out. They all have value. They all have something important to tell you. But it can be easier if we can organize those many parts. This is how I organized those parts of my self...

Ego: This is my self-identity, it's the face I present to the world.
Shadow: Anything scary or shameful or painful goes here.
Anima/Animus: Loving parts go here.
Self: This is the part of me that is eternal. Anything related to "God" or "Spirit" goes here.

That simple model worked for me. If you find it useful, feel free to use it as well.

~ Namaste