id have to agree with that actually....we men are simple creatures...

Most men cannot comprehend our thought process. The don't understand our need to break things down to their most basic level and dwell on them. He's never going to be your best girlfriend. As my Aunt used to say you can't turn a sow's ear into a silk purse. As yourself why you married him, what was it about him that attracted you to him to begin with. Are those qualities still there? Do you spend time thinking not only of the things that upset you in your marriage but those things that make you very happy? If the only thing you're looking for is trouble, that's all you're going to find.

that is so true..ive learned to speak a lil "woman" though hehe