the numbness can sort of creep up on you and then one day you see somthing and you realise that you dont feel anything anymore - you're working on autopilot - doing all the things you should but you're not connected anymore - nothing means anything -

then I went to a T and he switched back on all the emotions - Im glad i lived alone then - I would have driven anyone up the wall! but it would have been good to have someone to share it with if I had been able to talk about it -

Flashbacks, nightmares, jumping at any noise, hypervigilence - which means you are 100% alert all the time! then depression and anxiety - for me the depression crept up on me and I felt like i didnt want to do anything - see anyone - just crawl under the covers and not come out - its like youre in the dark and you cant see the light anymore -and then you stop looking for it - you dont care - again a T helped me.

I am glad your wife is seeing a T and it might be an idea if you could see her T to help you understand because each of us is different - I hope things improve for your wife and you soon P7