[quote=I_WMD;933623]also ?? OK ...

May I work backwards >> as to my example : [ I like that you mentioned my * odd * sense of wording / writing >> I think there is a club for " translating me " >> LOL > Joking ]

transgress from where you be now .... It reflects growth ,, or ...???

And then ,, there is also your aversion to certain peeps ..
[ Keeping open mind ] >> .... Have not seen that as a >> * must do * ,,,
Just sometimes >> we may / can Make choices ,, to watch and listen .. [ and walk away ]




Transgress from where you be now. it reflects growth ....or maybe not.

trangression is to disobey or breach a promise or contract.

There are many rules people have that they place on themselves and others.

we each have a choice to stay or go or see or not see . I have chosen to not see the waving red flags that have been flying high and strong .

I remember them and thier cruetly and they are still there .

am I closing the door on others for in the future based on a few individuals behavior? for now yes . Might I keep an open mind for the chance there may be a few who are genuininly not controlers? yes I can keep a crack open .

as you shared ,

To watch and listen , then walk away . Good plan .

paying attention to the warnings . I didnt do it . I need to pay attention.

theres already three flags fly in this new person .
I need to pay attention.

so Patricia is alone . no one , Better to be alone than mistreated . repressed talked down to controlled .

and not engaged , not having the other come forward . aways being in the waiting position always being in the risking postion. and the other not risking.

Im hurt and very sad..

but glad I'm free.



Thank you Corky.

Patricia