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Originally Posted by multipixie9
i am not sure i even know how to recognize what i need, much less communicate it with phil.
i finally told him i was having some difficult feelings coming up and that that was why i'd been in a bad place all weekend.
i usually can't tell anyone when i need something.
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Yeah! You told him! Leslie, this is important. He might not have given you a "female response" but he heard you and he did take note. If you keep telling him then he possibly won't get angry and impatient with you because he will understand why you might be behaving a certain way. If you keep practicing you will get better at it!
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