People tell many of us to talk about what we're feeling or what we remember, what we've been through, all that stuff. But we all seem to have the same answer, which is we don't know how to talk about it. One of us said it's like we have a puzzle in our head and there's so many words and pictures but we can't put them together so that they make sense and when we open our mouth to talk nothing comes out. Two of our littles have been expressing more. They both have been drawing, and one actually tried to explain one of her pictures that she drew to our friend. Lots of people seem to get upset and frustrated with us because we won't talk and they want us to, but how do we talk? Seems like none of us helps others as much as we used to since we've been trying to figure this out. Just feel worthless, can't do anything right. Like everyone wants us to talk and we are too stupid to get the words out, and when we try to help we say the wrong things. Feels like we deserved everything that happened. Sorry if I posted this in the wrong place. Layla