The answer had to do with OCD and physical care. I suggested in my answer using positive self-talk, such as "the tiolet is clean" and the "school is safe".

The tiolet comment had them laughing to the point they were in tears and repeating the phrase.

We were in groups sharing our answers with each other and adding to our own answers what we missed. And one of my group members went over to this other group and shared some of my answers with them. What has me fuming and not able to focus/sleep is the fact my answers were shared with a group of ladies that then laughed at my answers. I tried all night to sleep and I couldnt. My heart is pounding and my thoughts are racing.

Second issue...

We exchanged e-mail addresses within our group. I didn't get one of the e-mail addresses for a group member directly from her. I found it on a group e-mail sent to me by another group member. Without thinking I copied and pasted this person's e-mail address and sent her an e-mail asking nicely if she could forward me her answers. I realize it was inappropriate and I should have asked permission to e-mail her (use her e-mail address...etc.). So, finally this morning I e-mailed her to apologize for not asking her permission to e-mail her.

Thoughts are racing through my head like: she will be angry with me and not want to talk to me....etc.

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Can someone please set me straight? Advice and comments welcomed!