My GF and I trust each other with everything, and are very open. Up until last month we were both Virgins. We have tried sex 6 times, and are really frustrated, and I'm bored.

Before my GF and I lost our virginity, I would stimulate her clit until she got her O. She would do the same to me, but with less success. I find it really hard to get an orgasm.

all this info about guys being premature, I seem to be the opposite. But it's all for nothing anyway...

Unfortunately, with Vaginal sex she feels next to no pleasure. And given the alternative of me stimulating her clit with my finger (she gets an orgasm within 5-10 minutes), sex seems pretty purposeless.

For me I struggled to reach a climax, either with her hand, or through her vagina. Mostly I just want to reach a climax quickly, because she doesn't enjoy it, besides it takes me like a half an hour sometimes.

I would like to know how she can reach more pleasure through vaginal sex. She is very shy, and she didn't begin to touch herself until she was 28, 4 years ago, she definately will not buy a toy of anysort, I would have to buy it and bring it to her. But as I've said, why try a Toy, when she can have a O within 7minutes with me stimulating her. She only puts up with sex because she wants me to experience pleasure too, and vaginal sex doesn't tire her arm the way a hand job does.

This seems like a crappy situation, I want vaginal sex over quickly, and she just wants an O through me stimulating her clit. Not much of a Sex life. After 37 years of being a virgin, I was expecting something more exciting, but after 6 or 7 times I'm bored with the whole thing. I'd rather just cuddle with her.

is this as good as it gets?