I still bring up the deer camp thing. But it's usually in a joking manner like "yeah, I was so angry at your father I that I almost didn't marry him. I use it as a lesson in compromise. At the time I got nothing from that compromise (that I knew of at the time), but he was absolutely right. (One of the few times in our marriage :P)

Perhaps the reason he's hiding it is because you react so much to people he doesn't have a chance in hell with, that he feels you'd go over the edge with people he actually knows.