i would like to tell you that you are overreacting but then I would be a hypocrite. My husbands has had an affair something that I'm still working thru for the last yr. But he like to talk ***** to women online. He only does it when he's drinking and I think its for the ego boost. I know when someone I once knew looks me up it boost my self- esteem maybe thats what he's doing? Maybe he's wanting to have his ego stroked. Hope it all works out for you.