My theory about the age thing is that men start experiencing "performance issues" as young as thirty. That becomes a big issue for them because they feel they can't please their woman. Its silly, what with all the drugs out there now.

Nothing has improved for us. In part because I just haven't said anything. The last time we talked about it I didn't feel any better because of his list of priorities comment. I go through phases where it doesn't bother me as much and I can focus on how great he is in all other areas. But then I go and do something stupid on Monday. I can email his phone so I sent him a sexy type email, just a quick comment about demonstrating something for me that I couldn't see on tv. He replied with "lol". I knew I'd get a response like that. Anytime I do anything flirty or sexy he totally blows it off. I know I need to talk about this again because its gotten me in a total funk this week. But I know the answer I'll get so whats the point? My friend told me I need all the information so I can make an informed decision about how to proceed. IE if its not gonna change, can I live with this. Ugh. This just sucks. With all the crap I'm dealing with and making it through, sex should NOT be one of the things stressing me out. Well, lack there of I should say. Tomorrow will be ten months. Sigh.